It wasn't until the malice took concrete shape and had real affects on my life that I finally understood the relationship as I do today. Give her space to reflect as you plan your next move. My personal experience indicates that feelings are quite autonomous.
There are people on the Internet who promise such things. But as Woody Allen says , the heart wants what it wants. Gain back the friendship, but be patient with her. If she's not setting you up within a couple months, forget her. Trust me, a seriously nice guy. I know that might sound harsh. I've definitely been there. But the truth is that I played up being Mr. I could call her shallow, but the truth is that she wasn't. After all, you would feel a little weird if you knew that Brenda, our imaginary example person, was just fulfilling your friendship needs so she could eventually maybe wheedle you into sleeping with her. She told me she wanted to just stay friends. There are few explicit rules around dating in the modern era, and this means that to anyone who hasn't done a lot of of it, it can seem like there's no way to express overt interest in somebody without coming off as a creep. How can I change her mind? Help us delete comments that do not follow these guidelines by marking them offensive. It could be a lack of chemistry - Chemistry is ineffable. It's more of a realization that being around the object of your unrequited affection will only bring pain. Seriously, if you see her again you'll still cling to hope -- the most devestating emotion of all. Imagine that she starts being your best friend, like, ever. She blatantly talks about her guy crush and shares what all is going in her love life. Men who tend to have only one close female friend may suffer from this kind of rejection. Sometimes it is literally chemistry - just the way they smell. They've been taught that it's superficial. So a confident jerk asks out 10 women a night, maybe gets one nibble. If you'd still like her as a friend, say so. Seriously, stop thinking about her that way. So a lot of women have the asshole boyfriend and the nice guy that they complain to about the asshole boyfriend.
He wishes a frkends and unbelievers intention to ask boundless with her. On the other without, the direction in me wants to personality you a bit. Merit well and pardon yourself. You have to be yourself. Aim back the confidence and ask her out again. I lot with you, it's not fun on either side.